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Cake day: January 19th, 2026

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  • I agree entirely. Anecdotally, dating has always been easier for me than building platonic relationships.
    I think for dating the ‘rules’ are a lot more clear, so it’s easier to figure out what works and what does not. I can be fairly straightforward when dating, whereas budding friendships from my perspective and experience require a very different approach.



  • Vespa but that’s irrelevant. The point of the punishment is to not have people text and drive - not to punish them for having a larger vehicle.

    Many laws exist to reduce risk and harm. The difference in risk and harm of a speeding car vs. a speeding scooter should not require elaboration, as shown also by you choosing the Vespa.

    The Vespa driver is not less morally culpable for ending up in the accident in the first place - just luckier that the consequences were less severe.

    If we accept that the risk and harm involved in a Vespa crash are less severe than a car crash, there is absolutely a difference in moral culpability. If you knowingly perform an action where the potential outcome is the death of some random person, you should be held responsible to a higher degree than if you knowingly perform an action where the potential outcome is a handful of bruises on a random person (I’m talking about general rules, not saying Vespa crashes don’t involve more serious risks).

    Same reason why breaking traffic laws on a bicycle generally carries less severe punishment than doing the same on a motorcycle or in a car.

    Would you make the same argument for gun violence? If a person commits armed robbery then should someone who used a .22 get a lesser sentence than someone who used a .45 ACP and if not, why? Larger caliber is more dangerous exactly the same way a larger vehicle is.

    No, because the person carrying the firearm made a decision to put other people’s lives on the line. A .22 can kill a person, and the person carrying it knows this, yet chooses to use it to threaten someone.