For example, I’m a guy with a pregnancy kink and I fantasize about getting 2-3 women pregnant at the same time and being surrounded by swollen bellies that I’m responsible for. But that would be insane to do for real.

What fantasy can’t you act out?

      • Justas🇱🇹@sh.itjust.works
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        9 days ago

        Oh I’m aware. But imagine spending thousands of dollars and days in surgery to look worse, and often it’s impossible to go back.

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      For some people, the appeal is to have maximally exaggerated features and go as extreme as physics allow. What I prefer is an enhanced version of my original features, as well as the psychological aspects of the kink. Part of the kink is allowing someone else to make me that way for their pleasure, but that is the part that will stay a fantasy because it requires both too much trust and shared ideals.

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        9 days ago

        I think that if you did find someone you could place so much trust in, they would find you great as you already are most of the time.

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        I agree, the psychological aspects can be even more important than changing certain physical features. The idea of you being willing to leave certain decisions up to your partner is arousing but obviously it takes a high amount of trust. Sounds like you have the perfect attitude for this though.