People change, and you change, over the years. And over time life can throw a lot of shit your way. Love is easy when it’s just dates in your free time, or if you’re long distance and every visit is a little vacation. When every encounter is a special little event.
Not everyone changes. Some people do the same shit for decades and they abhor novelty and change.
I’m dating in my 40s… many of the women I meet have been doing the same shit for 20+ years and do not want to change anything about their life and have zero interest in trying new things or adapting to someone else. I find it terrifying… it reminds me of my parents who did nothing with their lives.
Not everyone changes. Some people do the same shit for decades and they abhor novelty and change.
I’m dating in my 40s… many of the women I meet have been doing the same shit for 20+ years and do not want to change anything about their life and have zero interest in trying new things or adapting to someone else. I find it terrifying… it reminds me of my parents who did nothing with their lives.