That’s not true, you can love anyone no mater how they feel.

Your statement kills hope, “well if you can’t love your self no one will like you” might as well give up.

I love people who don’t even know I exist, some of the most self loathing people I have met are in committed loving relationships, I’m not talking about proformitive self hate but sitting in the dark drinking wine laying it all out to a friend you know you can trust self hate.