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minus-squarefour@lemmy.ziplinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up10arrow-down1·2 months agoDo you decide what you find attractive? Or just observe and notice? Could you decide that something is attractive for you?
minus-squareArghblarg@lemmy.calinkfedilinkarrow-up9arrow-down1·2 months agoGood observation; maybe ‘decide’ isn’t the best word.
minus-squareMountainaire@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down1·2 months agoWe happen to be attracted to whatever we are attracted to… It’s subconscious, really, perhaps partly stemming back to childhood experienced and parentally instilled values…
minus-squareVelypso@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down2·2 months agoYes, i decided by observing and noticing. That’s how attraction works. Im not just by default attracted to one hair style or a specific skin color. I observe and notice what attracts me and make a decision.
Do you decide what you find attractive? Or just observe and notice? Could you decide that something is attractive for you?
Good observation; maybe ‘decide’ isn’t the best word.
We happen to be attracted to whatever we are attracted to… It’s subconscious, really, perhaps partly stemming back to childhood experienced and parentally instilled values…
Yes, i decided by observing and noticing.
That’s how attraction works.
Im not just by default attracted to one hair style or a specific skin color.
I observe and notice what attracts me and make a decision.