• whoisearth@lemmy.ca
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    10 months ago

    As a father of a child with Autism I feel I am more than adequately equipped to respond to this.

    I don’t think many, if any, neurotypical people understand how Autism can impact a person’s ability to process the world in a way that is deemed “normal”. This child may not be verbal, may have aggression issues, may have a learning disability, etc.

    The last thing that should have happened is someone pulling a gun.

    I cry thinking something like this could happen with my son. All it takes is one bad interaction with someone who has absolutely no experience with Autism and this can happen.

    For anyone reading this, do yourself a favour. Volunteer with autistic people. It could be at school or in the community but you all need to learn that Autism does not look like the doctor in The Good Doctor.

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      10 months ago

      I cry thinking something like this could happen with my son.

      Gotta prepare him for when he is antagonized

      My nephew is autistic, ODD and goes violent when going overboard

      The more he is antagonized young, the better he learns how to deal with it. He is getting much better at understanding himself and controlling himself in situations he wouldn’t have a few years ago

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      10 months ago

      He was attacking people and hurting people already. This isn’t a situation where he was irritated and the corner and someone provoked him, he was already violent when the officer’s arrived.

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      10 months ago

      I posted a similar comment before seeing your more eloquent reply. All I can say is you are 100% right about this:

      I don’t think many, if any, neurotypical people understand how Autism can impact a person’s ability to process the world in a way that is deemed “normal”. This child may not be verbal, may have aggression issues, may have a learning disability, etc.

      And the people who should MOST be aware of this? Those who we issue a gun and a badge.