Respectfully, active investing (where you’re routinely making decisions about what to do) is a losing game for randos like us.
Passive investing (particularly with as emotional as you feel about it, which I understand!) is probably what you are after.
There is ~0 chance you (or I!) will make the active decisions well. Get some passive stuff going, it’s so boring you forget about it, which dovetails right into that investing philosophy tbh.
Respectfully, active investing (where you’re routinely making decisions about what to do) is a losing game for randos like us.
Passive investing (particularly with as emotional as you feel about it, which I understand!) is probably what you are after.
There is ~0 chance you (or I!) will make the active decisions well. Get some passive stuff going, it’s so boring you forget about it, which dovetails right into that investing philosophy tbh.