I’d hardly call what I said making fun of him. If you’re that sensitive though, like I said - go off. You won’t hurt my feelings fella.

There’s nothing wrong with me saying what I said in my original comment. It was lighthearted poking. That’s all.

Mr serious decided to jump in with the 99 rules of gun safety that I’m an idiot for not nodding along solemnly to.

Why wouldn’t I jab back? If I were trying to be rude I would have been rude. lol.

You should take my previous advice and chill. It’s not that serious - once again.

You’re clearly the dull one here.

Attacking my sense of personal responsibility because I said “can’t have 2 rule number 1’s”?

It’s not me that looks like the ass but go off, hole!

And now I have$97.65 worth of food at Wendy’s that I don’t know what to do with, thanks dick

Hey bro? Calm down, it was a joke. It’s not that serious. Did you skip your meds today pal?

Rule number 1 of life: you can’t have two rule number 1s

Steve Erwin voice: hee we 'ave an actual Trump Supporrta in the woild, friends. Be caaful! 'E’s dangerous! Gotta be reeeeaalll quoiet around these beauts.

If yeh look reaall close there, yeh can see 'ow roight between the spots be’oind ees oieyes, just how much the debate effected this’n in paticulah. Fascinating stuff WOAH, caaful now don’t get too close, Bob. That’s roight… noice an easy.

Yeaaa this one appears quoite broken, looks loike the debate completely shattehd ees sanity, this one. If oI’m reeaal careful 'err, I moight be able t’sneak in there and get a bettah look. Nice an easy, nice an easy.

Sorry I meant to clarify earlier if I didn’t, I’m on android app (Jerboa). That’s probably why

Can you walk me through how you check it maybe I’m just not seeing the option

Idk maybe I just can’t on mobile through the app I’m using (Jerboa)

Yes that’s it

Is that for every community? Couldn’t find any mod logs in Politics

Thank you :)

She tested positive for codeine, the weakest opiate you can possibly get because to trigger any bigger result you’d need a thousand poppy seeds or more.

The hospital is 1000000000² % at fault here. Any competent medical staff doesn’t let this happen.

You’re 100% wrong here man, sorry to tell you.

I’m here if for any reason other than venting because I want to hear a reason I haven’t considered that indicates she’s NOT doing what I thought.

Cheating is actually the last place I went to. We called everyone who conceivably could have left it there to try and see who was missing a nice brand new surge protector.

But I’m glad you have my entire psychological being figured out down to the core based on one post lol. Also I didn’t make 3 separate posts, I made the first one zonked from a muscle relaxant, edited it once, then just deleted and reposted because I made so many mistakes on the first one.

Sorry man but you’re projecting your own previous experience here or something, IDK.

Even though I didn’t find the logical explanation I was looking for, I still decided to accept that some things just cannot be explained and moved on.

Great guesswork though!

I agree with you on every level. And I promise, I have moved past it the best I can. It hurts to think about, obviously, when I do think about it. Of course. But I have forgiven her for what she did. She earned it.

However I am by nature a realist. I know this is just a power strip. I mean come on, right?

But perhaps if you understood where I’m coming from in regards to the fact that there is literally zero logical explanation for it being in her car when it wasn’t 2 days previously.

That’s what’s giving me the hard time.

Over the years since her past transgressions, I’ve had many situations arise where doubt entered the equation and I was forced to look long and hard at both the facts and myself. I moved past/worked through each and every in such scenario.

But after racking my brains, I cannot for the life of me figure out how this could have made it into her vehicle from one day to the next.

I don’t know what anyone on the internet can tell me.

Rather, I do know: nothing.

I don’t know what I hoped to gain from any comments that might arise. I just needed to vent perhaps.

Thank you, for both your comments and your perspective. Have a good one!

She doesn’t drink anymore. Hasn’t for years.

Couples counseling would absolutely be beneficial to us… IF she’s not cheating currently.

Apologize my doctor gave me a strong muscle relaxer yesterday after doing some work on my foot and I typed this first thing in the morning, clearly I was still out of it. It’s just been bugging me that no one knows where this thing came from. I edited the post somewhat for clarity.

Fair enough. It’s just hard because the previous time I found out about the cheating, it was completely by chance. It actually scared me how good she was at hiding it and she didn’t come off of any details until I found out the truth myself. And even then she trickled truthed. I still don’t know if I know the full story from the last time.

So if I let this go completely which I agree part of me wants to, and something did happen, chances are I’ll never find out.

That’s where I’m having my difficult time

Deeper issues stemming from a previous cheating issue though admittedly a couple years back on her part. Yes.

And stemming from you know - no one having any logical explanation how it got there.

I really wasn’t. I didn’t lead with the whole oh that’s weird part. In fact she led with the weird where did it come from part. We sat down together called family members and tried to figure out where it came from. It seemed like she was trying really hard to show how confused she was.

Once everyone from both sides of our family said they had no f****** clue where it came from, that’s when I said that’s weird. It’s almost like it just appeared out of thin air.

I reacted calmly this entire time. But then she just went full defensive mode.

I also as I mentioned to a different commenter, found out that she cheated once before in our relationship. That was about a 4-week ordeal between the time she cheated and the time I found out. Any conversations about weird activity back then were met with instant defensivism and darvoing.

That’s what this felt like.