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  • I have had a similar expierence with this, my mother would mostly ignore my input if I didn’t or did want to do something or if I knew she was wrong she would still ignore me and then find out she was wrong and rarely acknowledge I was right.

    I never thought about this affecting me until I was watching an interview with a psychologist about 2 years ago and I really resonated with part of it but it never left my mind. Recently I rewatched it and part a different part of it resonated deeper when the guy talked about disagreeing with his parents even though they thought they were right and they listened… I was unsure of what exactly that part was resonating with so I listened to it again. I decided to mix up drink shake mixture but I couldn’t bring myself to do it for some reason I was just locked up about making the drink for like 10 min even though I know I wanted to make the drink. While trying to get myself to do it.

    I noticed that there were internal voices that sounded different one was saying

    do I want to go thought the effort to clean the shaker though

    The other one though was saying

    do you even want the drink

    AND THEN IT HIT ME LIKE A TRUCK–THE 2ND WAS MY MOTHERS VOICE

    Then I was hit with and started processing all the anger, sadness, and anxiety that I felt and didn’t realize I had pent up because of her ignoring me and brushing me off.

    Its a tough thing to process and work through, I still am, but I feel better as a person now and more in control of my actions after the realization.

    If I had to recommend anything to help, I would say let yourself feel those feelings you were repressing let them out in safe manners like writing down how you feel about stuff or hell I just let myself cry for like an hour after the dam burst it made me feel a lot better. Of course a therapist could help you too but the above two can help otherwise.

    Also HealthyGamerGG is a really good YouTube channel with a lot of resources about mental health, it’s where the interview I was watching happened.

    I wish you the best on your journey




  • 6800xt user here Been dealing with it since like july-august , most commonly happens in OW2 and Starfield, not using opengl for those of course

    Minecraft is the only opengl game I play, it has had a couple mystery crashes here and there but none were pagefaults

    I’ve been running mesa-git updated almost every night running Arch with KDE.

    It’s been annoying, I can’t find a consistent way to trigger it sometimes going days without happening.

    Linux 6.7rc kernels and recent mesa commits have helped but it still happens about once every 2-3 days