Locking as it’s not a question. Sorry you’re going through that OP but there are other communities to get support.

This technically violates rule #5 but I feel like it’s a valuable information and discussion to have available.

Locking: rule 5, already answered, and no more to be said

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It’s what lemmy recommends for private messages since admins can see lemmy DMs. A lot of instances have matrix rooms too.

The solo devs knew that making a usable experience for the users was most important.

Smaller sample size but similar enough culture to the states. Sometimes we gets apps first too before they try pushing it to 300+ million

for now