I didn’t mean to put salt on a open wound, i was just curious about the current status

• Dare more with the girls
• study less and more focused on IT development
• start working earlier
• say more often "no"when I should’ve
• say now often "yes"when I should’ve
• Try to have a family a bit earlier
• get out of my parent’s home earlier

I see a c/stocks, not sure if it’s what you’re looking for