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he/they/ace/bi/idk

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Cake day: June 15th, 2023

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  • Yeah, family loss is still the toughest thing to grieve through, especially if you had ideal perspectives of them. However, that veil for me slowly cracked and crumbled at first, and finally blew apart when my dad said the following to my (then) coming out: “It’s all about this woke generation.”… that right there solidified my choice.

    I pondered about demi as well for a bit, but I would really need to sit and think about where I fall under the ace Plinko. The dating thing for me is basically non-existent as noted in an earlier comment, and it’s a combination of still trying to feel right in my own skin, and the confidence like you mention. Also, I’m older now, and being that I kinda played a reverse bachelor, as now I get to settle into that life where I can just chill.

    We shared the same bad for a while afterwards, however there was a point when it started to feel weird, like kinda coming to the realization after the initial choices. But now, I have a kickass basement en suite, kitted out just the way I like it :)



  • I head a very similar situation start roughly 7-8 years ago. She came out as lesbian after assessing the possibility of being bi, and i was struggling myself with also the possibility of being gay. I primarily identify as ace, so plenty of confusion. I settled with bi for now, but anyway, she fully publicly came out in 2019 and got nothing but support, except from my family. They are currently no-contact for many reasons. There were a lot of rollercoaster emotions overall.

    Anywho, were still besties, and we have a house that we share, and she just got engaged to her true love, and i can’t be happier for them. We’re in the midst of a very amicable divorce (nothing to split and no kids), and it’s been kinda nice to be solo

    I know this is a more peculiar situation, but it worked out in the end 😁