How are you 😊😊

I might tell him :) if he starts dropping hints and he seems ready

You said you probably don’t like guys. Your bio says you’re a lesbian. Could you perhaps try to find girls who act the way you’re looking for and forget the other people? That man is not healthy for you, and you could just be looking for anyone out of loneliness.

Good luck to you 🫂

Bi, he seems to have internalized homophobia but has dated women and a man. He acts a little different around me but makes a lot of gay jokes/flirts with both his male and female friends. I wanna tell him I’m single now (a while ago, I had a GF) but don’t wanna make it obvious I like him.

He’s single and athletic, he thankfully sees me not as a dorky loser. (He had an ex BF and GF obsessed with status [when we were 14-15] and the BF HATED that I have autism. He insulted my outfits, and I was honestly jealous of Karl at the time and attracted to his ex. Looking back after around 4 years, I have no clue what I saw in Karl’s ex. He was “cool”, social, “better” than anyone who wasn’t Karl, had no time for “losers”, etc. He still thinks Karl’s flirtatiousness means he wants his ex back despite flirting with most everyone.

He has convinced people that they were still dating despite no longer liking guys. (Karl’s ex is straight now). Karl’s ideal friend is athletic and popular, but I’m smart(when i wanna be) and help him with stuff.

Yep 😅😅

Thanks so much!!

Is your Karl 18 and bi😅😂?

He doesn’t seem to respect women at all, I would say it’s not worth it. If your girlfriend isn’t giving you the attention you deserve/meeting your needs, you should probably end the relationship. There’s plenty of other people who will treat you better than any of them. Also, Ethan already hasn’t treated you better than they did because he seems to see you as an object/goal.

I agree, especially the guy who’s looking for girlfriends online.

Thanks so much!

Do you think (from the limited info given) Karl might like me a little?

Similarly, Swedish has

• ”Farfar, får får får?” (Grandpa, do sheep have sheep?)
• ”Nej, får får inte får, får får lamm”. (No, sheep don’t have sheep, sheep have lambs)

Maybe try asking !needadvice@lemm.ee ?

Also, not a psychologist, but it sounds like it could be both.

Relationships should be equal, with both people respecting each other. He seems immature expecting you to do all the housework and cook/clean for him. (Sadly, some men have this view on women.)

This doesn’t seem like a healthy relationship, please give us updates on how it’s going.

That’s fair enough

Thanks!! It just showed a white screen, I’ll check if it works again

Thanks!! It’s Lemmy.ml I can’t open

Well, I mean in the context of not having homophobic people interested in you or a woman having in her profile that she’s, for example, a lesbian, so other sapphic women will see it and not just wonder if she’s straight or not.

Same, I was in eighth grade.

And drink water

I don’t drink often, and not enough to get drunk. I just wanted to say you should drink as much water as you can and eat something, even if it’s just a piece of bread.