Read “Runabout” and thought you where talking about star trek for a second

I left lemmy.world for unrelated reasons but this makes me even more glad I did

Are you one of those trolls that spreads misinformation online about Japan

If you are just stop

I’ve researched the place because it’s in my list of countries I’d like to live in and most misinformation is from tourists misunderstanding stuff and / or causing trouble for the locals and online trolls

Once you research Japan the misinformation goes away and you get a better understanding of the country and its people

It’s also very odd that you’re going out of your way to target Japanese pilots when there has been many other videos online of planes from other countries being struck by lightning and pilots are trained to fly through thunderstorms in multiple countries

https://youtu.be/aQYoMfaq6aQ

This one was in Brazil where the plane was parked at the terminal

https://youtu.be/YXH9S1ZVl3s

This one is from a plane landing in Toucumen International Airport in panama City which I assume is in america because americans often don’t state the country online leading to confusion

https://youtube.com/shorts/LnYKsQoi5g8

This is from a plane leaving Richmond, B.C Canada

https://youtube.com/shorts/c5mLjdoJ1h4

This is in seattle, washington america

https://youtube.com/shorts/T0-wmZuioXY

This plane is landing in dallas, texas america

What you also haven’t considered is that landing & take-off conditions are different for every airport and every area that has an airport has a seasonal average weather type

I just used the feminine variant of my deadname

As a Closeted trans woman myselfi can definitely say yes to this

I’m actually on the spectrum myself so I do understand you more than neurotypicals

I know that shitty and worthless Feeling, like you can’t do anything and have to rely on others and you’re useless outside of the small things you do know how to do

The part of your comment about society failing you really reminds me of how bad my school was at teaching, yes they had a support person in classes sometimes to help you if you got stuck and here in Australia in high-school they have a subject / class specifically for people with disabilities alongside your regular subjects / classes but I still felt they just made things easier for me and did the bare minimum in teaching me skills to support myself instead of relying on others for help when I got stuck on something

It also reminds me of how parts of society build up support structures for people on the spectrum without involving people on the spectrum at all so they think the structures will work for every autistic person without out having actually having involved people on the spectrum to help them see what it’s actually like as an autistic person on the spectrum and get feedback from us on what can be done to better support us

I do like that NDIS (National Disability Insurance Service) here in Australia involves you in planning but it’s still just picking parts of that existing support structure that was made without autistic peoples input

explain the feelings behind transitioning to me, a cisgender?

SEX = Physical characteristics of a body assigned at birth

GENDER = The gender someone identified as along the gender spectrum, such as male or female

Transgender people experience gender dysphoria where they are born one gender but their body doesn’t match the gender they where born with say someone was born male but their body was female or they where born female but where born with a male body

Having a body that doesn’t match the gender you where born with can he debilitating for trans people

The closest way I could describe how it feels is to imagine someone body swapped a cis person into the opposite sex body, the cis person would feel uncomfortable in that body because it’s the opposite sex to the gender rather identify with

Is it a matter of societal forces imposing masculine expectations because of your physical characteristics when ultimately, what you feel deep down are effeminate characteristics of the true you? (Or am I wrongly assuming that one is transitioning to another gender and not instead to non-binary?)

I feel like my above answer would be a better explanation to this in addition to my following answer to this

I feel like this is a smaller part of the entire trans experience

Transgender people’s experiences aren’t really binary, it’s more of a spectrum

So I can’t answer for every trans person but personally as a currently closeted trans woman I do hate societal forces imposing masculine ideals on me

I may need more clarification on this question because in 90% sure of it but theres still the 10% I’m unsure about

I personally don’t like to apply masculine or feminine labels to my own characteristics because they are a part of what makes me and I don’t see them as masculine or feminine

yes to the first, if society was more receptive to, say, masculine women or effeminate men at face-value, would that have made you more comfortable prior to transitioning?

I cannot answer this as I’m closeted so haven’t physically transitioned yet

Bit off topic here but this does remind of how I don’t like the unrealistic portrayals of strong women in movies and media

A lot of movies and media like to potray strong women as Mary Sue’s or just write a male character but just change the sex to female

I feel this doesn’t portray strong women in movies and media realistically at all because it doesn’t realistically protray the experiences, feels, struggles, etc of women and there can be strong women who choose to be feminine and / or sexy as well

So I don’t think society is fully understanding of masculine women and effeminate men just as they aren’t fully understanding of Transgender people unless they go out of their way to properly study and learn theese things

I’m interested in better understanding how this sort of realignment for lack of a better word improves the feelings of gender dysphoria if it’s more an internal pressure than one imposed upon you by society.

I assune your talking about transitioning here

Trans people transitioning their body to align with the physical characteristics of the gender the align with can alleviate or get rid of the symptoms of gender dysphoria

In terms of physical attraction, are say MtF by the statistics more attracted to M or F, or is it split, are the bisexual/asexual/pansexual, or is data unclear? Is the aspect of gender dysphoria entirely decoupled from the notion of partner attraction (gay, straight, etc.)?

Personally I’m attracted to women which would make me trans lesbian or lesbian which some trans women who are lesbian have portmanteau’d into the term “transbian” but not every trans women will use the “transbian” term as it’s personal preference

I thought I was straight before I realised I was a trans woman

I also have this weird imposter syndrome (I don’t know if I’m using the right term) where it does feel weird to call myself lesbian because I’m still closeted and haven’t physically transitioned yet so I look down, see a male body and it feels weird to call myself lesbian even though I’m I know I’m a trans woman who just hasn’t physically transitioned yet because I’m still closeted.

I do also read and watch a lot of girls love / wlw / yuri content because I feel I can relate to it both because I’m a trans woman and because I’m lesbian

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I’ve tried to answer your questions to the best of my understanding, sorry if I misunderstood something because sometimes it can take a while for it to fully click mentally for me

You probably should get yourself checked for Autism Spectrum Disorder and so does anyone else who experiences anything similar

Some people with ASD have a sensitivity to things neurotypical people don’t notice

Autism is a Spectrum Disorder so not all autistic people have the same symptoms and you can’t self diagnose yourself, you need to see someone specialised for that

You might want to get yourself checked for Autistic Spectrum Disorder because I notice CFL tube (fluorescent tube light) flicker if I pay attention to them when no one else does

Some people with ASD are more sensitive to things other people don’t notice

The only problem is lemmy seems to be hostile to certain niches specifically ones closer to spiritual realted stuff

And just to make this clear to idiots who want to be idiots SPIRITUALITY IS NOT RELIGON

Let me guess, you voted for that orange cheeto

Yeah try telling people here to be kind

This place is still nicer then reddit but it’s still got problems with a**hole users

• The ones that spam a certain viewpoint amd downvote people who disagree with them and I’m not talking about bigoted users who you should downvote as they want dystopia but users who have different viewpoints to them

• People who act like assholes if you don’t share their holier-than-thou viewpoint that they try to enforce everywhere

• The users here who insist everyone here be atheists, I’m not atheist nor am I religous (I also have a dislike for organised religons) but I still do dislike those kinds of users

• The people here who act like like a**holes when you critique something or give feedback

I’m sure there’s more I’m missing but those are what I remember from the top of my head that I dislike about certain lemmy users and why I think not everyone here is capable of being kind

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Awww is baby whinging because the UK is better than sithole america

Oh the guy with the punchable face

Here’s a copy of the guide as of Thu 20th Feb 2025, the markdown formatting may potentially not render correctly because it’s a direct copy and paste from the gitlab snippit with some small editing to reinsert line breaks and correct formatting:

x4740N’s Guide to Finding Wholesome Yuri Manga.

Below is a good method i use for finding wholesome Yuri Manga that generally gives me good results I am sharing in hopes my simple method can help others find wholesome Yuri Manga.

⚠ WARNING ⚠:

IF YOU DO NOT LIKE YURI MANGA THEN THIS GUIDE ISNT FOR YOU BECAUSE ITS ONLY FOCUSED AT HELPING THOSE WHO LIKE YURI MANGA FIND WHOLESOME YURI MANGA IT WILL NOT HELP YOU IF YOU DONT LIKE YURI MANGA.

Step 1: Tag Selection.

Select the Yuri tag obviously Select other desired tags you want to find in your wholesome Yuri Manga Exclude unwholesome tags for example the tragedy tag, unwholesome tags can potentially vary for every person as its subjective.

Step 2: Look at the Manga Cover.

How does the manga cover feel, If it feels wholesome, happy or positive then its likely Wholesome Consider the emotions of the characters shown on the Manga cover How does the cover look to you ? If the cover feels unwholesome, dark or unhappy then it likey isnt a wholesome manga.

Step 3: Read the Plot.

Have a read of the plot, is it positive or negative How does the plot feel to you ? If the plot feels positive to you then its likely wholesome but if its negatieve then the manga likely isnt wholesome.

Step 4: Read Some Issues.

Read some of the issue’s in the manga and judge the tone and feel of the Manga If it feels postive then its likely wholesome manga but if its negative then its likely not wholesome Manga.

Tips:

• This guide may be applicable to Anime - Remember that how someone feels about a Manga is subjective, not everyone has the same intrests as another when it comes to Manga.
• Look into yuri manga in Manga magazines from Japan aimed at Women and Girls such as Comic Yuri Hime

Recomended Sites:

• Okazu Does contain some recomendations for yuri stuff from Japan but also contains non Japanese wlw stuff.

Recomended Terms: Helpful terms to help with your search.

• Shoujo Yuri (“少女百合” In Japanese) is Girls Yuri and is Yuri Manga aimed at Girls, “Shoujo” Manga in general is aimed at Girls.
• Josei Yuri (“女性百合” In Japanese) is Womens Yuri and is Yuri Manga aimed at Women, “Josei” Manga in general is aimed at Women.

Report Yuri Bait if you Find it.

Yuri bait are manga that makes it look like a yuri relationship is going to happen but doesnt and baits the audience into thinking a yuri relationship will happen Its really unwholesome and infuriating so if you come across it then let people know and state that its Yuri bait in online reviews.

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If you’re looking for wholesome yuri manga specifically I would recommend the facebook group “Wholesome Yuri Manga Panels” if you’re on there

It’s a public group with 100K members

I hate facebook but family members are on there and that’s the only way I have contact with some of them and that facebook group is only on there

I have an entire library of wholesome yuri manga in tachiyomi but it’s probably over 100 and I don’t have an easy way of sharing the list since tachiyomi doesn’t have a way to export categories as a text list

Also there’s a guide on my gitlab snippets which is linked in my profile bio on how to find wholesome yuri

Did you pirate your Harry Potter books ?

Who was the beefy guy again, completely forgotten everything about the movie except for Mila Kunis’s face because I’ve seen her in more movies

I’ve watched it when I was younger a couple of times but for me personally it was just a movie I watched amd the idea of rewatching it feels boring to me