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This months question(s) are:
How did you find out about sissydom as a concept and formal community? Did you stumble upon it by accident or was it something that you actively sought out?
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My introduction was through the “feminization captions” that we’re all so familiar with. Specifically The Feminization Station blog. I found out about this after discovering that hermaphrodites are a thing, amusingly. Something about living as a girl just… clicked, and I’ve never been able to shake the urge since. It was a slow spiral for a while until this last year, owing to my repression growing up.
For a long time as a teenager I really enjoyed videos specifically of trans women topping other women. That probably should have been a clue for me 😅.
The expectation of gendered norms is something, at least in this community, that we all need to reconcile with. I’m glad you found the path to your own happiness 🥰
Hey, that’s a pretty good genre of porn.
I definitely agree, though. Recognizing that you need to be the most, best you you can be, as opposed to the same toxic stereotypes but fem, is important.
I stumbled upon a now defunct Wordpress site called Sissy Girl Sanctuary. I think I read every article on that site in the same day, I was enthralled. I guess id found what I was into. Haven’t looked back since. P.s. shoutout various sissy tumbr pages pre the nsfw ban and to pink bimbo Academy (minus the antifeminism stuff) for being big influences
That sounds vaguely familiar. I may have also checked them out as some point. I did find an archive of all the Bambi audio files and a similar sounding blog that I used for a hot minute. I don’t remember the site name though and it wasn’t WordPress as far as I remember.
I had largely abandoned Tumblr by the point I found out everything about sissy kinks though so I never got to experience that life. Most of my Tumblr life was just run of the mill standard hornyposting in college.
This amuses me because I used Tumblr exclusively for sissy content and when I was a teenager thought I was too cool for it otherwise
Eh, it was a great arms-length way to keep up with artsy friends and find out what kind of music or things they were into. That and there was just so much porn. So. much. porn.
It’s hard for me to recall such origins that could go back 15 years or so, because so much of my journey of understanding myself sexually has been solo, and it blends together. (Off-topic: I dove deep into femme stuff with my first live-in gf and that partly derailed the relationship. Subsequently, I kind of compartmentalized the femme part of myself from partners even when I probably didn’t need to, maybe self-policing subconsciously.)
In asking myself this question, I see how my journey was shaped by cisnormativity and not having many close queer friends who I could talk to about sex and kinky things. This is as good a jumping off point as any:
I was into “whaletails” - that is when a (women’s) thong rides up over the pants (trousers) and is visible to passersby in public. I probably came across this term randomly through porn. But my interest in it persisted. I browsed forums about it. A little while later, I wore a thong. And I posted staged whaletail pics of myself, still while on a whaletail-specific forum iirc. Then, I think a couple years went by and I took some time off whaletail stuff (post breakup mentioned above), and then I return to it. Reddit’s now bigger. I probably found sissy stuff on Reddit through searching for whaletail stuff online. The feminization resonated. About 10 years after stumbling on sissy stuff, I’d pretty confidently identify as a non-transitioning trans person; ie, “I’m not cis I just play it most of the time in real life.” :P
I feel I haven’t really been about to think outside the (cishet) box. A lot of my discovery of what I’m into has been through finding “oh, there’s an online community for there. There’s a term for that. Yeah, I think I’m into that, I just never thought of it.”
Another thing: I had no more than a 2-sentence understanding of D/s stuff before learning about sissy stuff; I learned about bdsm through sissy stuff. I feel like that’s weird.
I guess I wish I could give some genderqueer person a hug and say, “it’s okay, there’s more than one way to have sex,” and I think I will do that 🥰. Good question!
I’m sorry you felt like you needed to hide parts of yourself on your relationship. That a crappy situation and it sucks. I too had a lot of my femme sentiments for a long time that I hid from my partner and I was very lucky that she was open and accepting when I decided to not hide things anymore.
As kids we have a lot of expectations thrust upon us. Most of them don’t allow for any deviation from the norm without severe backlash. There’s a reason that there’s a saying I hear in the queer community: behind every group of queer teenagers is a 30 year trans woman leading the way. Sometimes it’s important to be the voice that says “it’s okay” to someone.
Thank you ❤️. It’s incredible that you have a supportive partner and you deserve no less 🫶
I kind of just stumbled on hypnos as a porn genre on accident. I went through a phase of seeking out porn with massage and hypnosis/meditation themes and overwhelmingly if you put the word hypnosis into any porn site about 50%(and I’m being real conservative with this estimate) of all results were sissy related. I already loved submissive bdsm themes and as someone who was closeted and bisexual it scratched a specific itch that other things just didn’t come close to. I came to learn about everything else in time, but that’s how I ultimately found out it existed.
