What a sexy cock, omg. I would love to be your cock sucking slut. I only hope I could deepthroat that big dick good enough 🥺

Thank you ❤️. It’s incredible that you have a supportive partner and you deserve no less 🫶

Also, orgasms after a couple of weeks leave him partially horny, which I like.

That’s hot. Another pro for making him cum every three weeks, which I’ve read on an FLR blog, and my (AMAB) experience would agree with, is that denial-induced horniness tends to drop off after 3 week of denial

I’m not even all that into big tits, but big tits titty drop censored porn is some of the best censored porn 🔥

I’d say Luke has a lot of stamina (seeing as he’s caged and denied). That makes him a better sub, I’d imagine :). Is he caged 24/7? What’s his orgasm schedule (how often)?

I’d want to suck him while he’s peak-hard, but sucking the last bit of seed out of him while he’s going soft is a vibe >,<

You look like you could use a blowjob ;)

It’s hard for me to recall such origins that could go back 15 years or so, because so much of my journey of understanding myself sexually has been solo, and it blends together. (Off-topic: I dove deep into femme stuff with my first live-in gf and that partly derailed the relationship. Subsequently, I kind of compartmentalized the femme part of myself from partners even when I probably didn’t need to, maybe self-policing subconsciously.)

In asking myself this question, I see how my journey was shaped by cisnormativity and not having many close queer friends who I could talk to about sex and kinky things. This is as good a jumping off point as any:

I was into “whaletails” - that is when a (women’s) thong rides up over the pants (trousers) and is visible to passersby in public. I probably came across this term randomly through porn. But my interest in it persisted. I browsed forums about it. A little while later, I wore a thong. And I posted staged whaletail pics of myself, still while on a whaletail-specific forum iirc. Then, I think a couple years went by and I took some time off whaletail stuff (post breakup mentioned above), and then I return to it. Reddit’s now bigger. I probably found sissy stuff on Reddit through searching for whaletail stuff online. The feminization resonated. About 10 years after stumbling on sissy stuff, I’d pretty confidently identify as a non-transitioning trans person; ie, “I’m not cis I just play it most of the time in real life.” :P

I feel I haven’t really been about to think outside the (cishet) box. A lot of my discovery of what I’m into has been through finding “oh, there’s an online community for there. There’s a term for that. Yeah, I think I’m into that, I just never thought of it.”

Another thing: I had no more than a 2-sentence understanding of D/s stuff before learning about sissy stuff; I learned about bdsm through sissy stuff. I feel like that’s weird.

I guess I wish I could give some genderqueer person a hug and say, “it’s okay, there’s more than one way to have sex,” and I think I will do that 🥰. Good question!

Great boobs, barely censored 👀

Hot caption and hot babe 🔥

What a good handle for the top to hold onto ;)

Gawd that’s hot. Perfection if we’d seen the booty :P

Very creative! Very hot 🔥. I loved hearing Luke. His moans and whimpers really capture his submission to your Domination. With the string on, I think you might be able to stimulate him with a vibrator more above the string - rather than through the foreskin - especially if you manipulate the head/glans (inside of him) towards that surface. Luke coming to you stroking a dildo where his cock should be would be 🔥🔥🔥

Hot cock, I especially like the girth and shape of the head/glans

This is a primarily OC community, lemmynsfw doesn’t have tons of users (compare to reddit), well-endowed men aren’t paid to post content (compare to porn), and massive cocks are statistically unlikely. This systematic review of 15.5k men finds ~1% of men have erect cocks 7 inches (17.78 cm) or longer: https://www.icopona.nz/content/Penis Size Study - Veale et al 2015 BJUI.pdf

100x better sissygasms might lead to addiction 🧐

I hope you don’t mind me saying that the beauty mark on your scrotum/perineum is beautiful and looks so hot on a femboy 🔥🥰

Right on, do you!!

If you’re enjoying yourself, keep doing what you’re doing. But if you’d like to masturbate less (or spend less time preoccupied with it), don’t have a partner (source of accountability), and still jerk off with your 24/7 chastity cage on - I’m not sure a chastity cage will help you meet your goals. Wearing it probably increases your arousal - especially when you’re trying to focus on other things. I wanted to put that out there. But I’ll close as I started, with the most important part: If you’re enjoying yourself, keep doing what you’re doing

I have a goal to be orgasm-free for 2026 (anal masturbation and orgasms okay, just not penile), which is ambitious. Today’s day 51 for me, and I’ll tie my personal best tomorrow 🥰.

I don’t have a keyholder.

After practicing chastity for a few years, I think I’ve come to appreciate that, for me, willpower is the greatest deterrent to pursue an orgasm. The cage and key obstruction methods are secondary to that. (For example, I’m not in chastity all the time, because of chafing, nocturnal erections, etc.; willpower’s doing all the hard work then)

Wearing a cage makes me feel more secure about my orgasm denial. I like wearing it out under clothes as a reminder to myself. I always want it on if I’m watching porn or masturbating or feeling tempted to touch myself.

I have a time-locking safe that I prefer to the ice method. It’s becoming part of my masturbation routine that cage goes on, key gets locked, …

Do you have orgasm denial or chastity goals?

You might enjoy this fledgling community, where I provide orgasm denial updates. Feel free to do the same ☺️! !orgasm_denial_psychology@lemmynsfw.com