Yeah, sorry, I got some friend which got hurt by people saying this exact thing. I reacted emotionally. You know I was raised by women and got a daughter and discovered the treatment done to girl then women this is still hurting. I didn’t knew what a little layway is used to justify really bad behaviors. But I may have over reacted, did you mean that as a joke in a joke ? I mean with the context of the European and the us society, this can be understood as saying that women complain about not getting asked when they reject people. Or it can be understood as remarking that the girl/women is doing normal stuff and is getting proposed like this ? Which is it ? Do you know in the dating world the men and women don’t have the same experience at all. I hope it changed but it look like no. Men have rare occasion which push some men to jumping at each opportunities making people inconfortable and women got proposed often and can’t know if people are opportunistic and got proposed often.