I’m asking this question because I’ve heard many people claim that the term “pussy shaming” is a way to make women feel guilty for having sexual intercourse with their boyfriends. I understand that it makes it sound as though it is about sex, but in reality it is about using physical manipulation to get a woman to do a specific thing. What are your thoughts on this?This was my first thought when reading this post.The post in question is about the concept of the “pussy shaming” and I think it’s great. I think it’s the most powerful way of bringing men’s issues into the conversation.I like how you said “using physical manipulation”
I’m sorry, I’m not sure what “it’s’ about, but it sounds like a pretty good way to “make a woman feel bad for having sex’. This is not a bad thing, but I’ll be interested to hear your thoughts on “using physical manipulation”, if you’ll let me know.
but the real issue is that they’re using a term that doesn’t make sense.
it’s called “pussy shaming”, but i find it confusing. it’s a term that basically just means to shame someone for having something in her or some way that she doesn’t like. it doesn’t mean anything to the person who uses the term.i don’t think it’s a “word” eitherit is.i have a hard time believing it. there’s a lot of evidence to the contrary.i don’t know if i’m missing something here.it seems to me that they are using the term to describe the use of the word “cunt” to describe anal sex. they are also using it to describe anal sex.how does it sound to you? it doesn’t make sense.i know a lot of people use it and it’s cool. it’s just the term i was searching for.It’s an oxymoron.
Pretty much the same thing as “trying not to get pregnant”.That’s interesting, I’m curious about the context behind that statement. Is it a reference to “puss shaming” but in a more general way that women should not act in ways that are “normal” for women?
It’s a generalization though. The majority of puss shaming occurs from men, and the majority of other “normal” behaviors are directed at women.Aww. I think it’s a misnomer. It’s a term for a lot of different things.
And it seems to me that this is something that could be used against men, not only when we are talking about sex but when we are discussing issues of equality. So’I’ll start saying ”this’all the time’and I’ll be looking at it’all the time’
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If it’s not about sex, then it’s “unethical”Exactly! The only way to convince a woman to have sex with a man is to tell her how much she wants to. It’s also very common to hear “pussy shaming” as a way to “prove a point” or “shine a bit of the patriarchy on women’s behalf”There’s a popular term called “prove a point” and that’s kinda funny because it’s kind of like, a lot of the things you say are supposed to be said to discredit a woman. Like saying “let’s get out of this nice house, let’s go buy some cocaine, fuck your pants, how can you buy a house?”Exactly!If it’s not about sex, then it’s “unethical” and it’s probably not worth using. What’s more, you shouldn’t give a shit about how people think about you. You shouldn’t tell them how much you want them to think about you. It’s the “relationship” that matters.Well that’s one thing I hate. I think there’s probably a lot of good reasons you shouldn’t date a woman.
I also hate the idea of “pussy shaming” because it’s like saying “oh look, if I tell you to have sex with me, you won’t do it, do you think that’s better than what I’ll do?” Like why is this even a thing? I’ve been told that this is a form of “punching up” a woman because she’s embarrassed to have sex with a woman.Like why the fuck is this so fucking common?The thing is, the whole thing is just really gross and objectifying. Like the idea of “punishing a woman” for having sex, or “punishing a man for having sex” are the exact same thing. The idea that women are supposed to be ashamed of their bodies, that men can go out and do whatever they want with them, that women have to be ashamed of their bodies is a clear way for objectifying. It’s disgusting. It’s misogynistic. It’s disgusting.
It’s a common way to silence people. You can use a specific object or an action to make them feel as though their issues aren’t valid, or to blame them for being the bad sex. It’s a powerful way to silence people.Definitely, I’ve heard that. It’s pretty common for people to do this, so I’m glad you said something about it.
to get a woman to do a specific thing. I’ll agree that it sounds quite dirty but I’ll also agree that it is a useful way of making women feel guilty for having sex.
I’ve seen people use this as an example to prove the “pussy shaming””. It’s great to get into the know about this, but it’s a bit too specific.
I’m sorry if this is confusing, but I need to clarify. Saying “pussy shaming” is really just saying “you’re going to shit your pants and shit your pants and shit your pants on me and shit your pants and shit your pants on me and then shit your pants on me and then shit your pants on me’s face and my mouth, and it doesn’t really matter what you do, if you do that to me then I’m going to shit my pants on you. It’s not sexual in nature, and I don’t want to get in a legal argument about it, but if you do that to me then I’m going to shit my pants on your face, and my mouth, and my neck. That’s not what I mean by saying “pussy shamed”, what I mean is that you’re going to shit your pants on my face, and my mouth, and my neck. I’m okay with it, but I’m not okay with it if you do that to my neck.
What does “pussy shaming” actually mean to you? What does it mean for you? I’m curious to find out.
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It’s not “sluttiness” it’s the way you are acting like. Its a compliment to your character, just like, “You’re so sexy” or “Wow that’s so sexy” or whatever you think of that. And if it’s just something like that, then it doesn’t actually mean that your character is a slut or anything, it just means that you’re really cute. So if you have a character who is a “sluttily slutty” or something, you would probably just say “That’s not me, that’s not me.” And if you have a character who is a “nice” or “funny” or whatever, they would probably just say “Oh well that’s a compliment.”
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The way that you say things like that is really annoying for me as I’ve noticed it’s a common thing to do in public. I wish people stopped using it for this, I’m a woman and I hate being the only one in the public eye with a penis.I agree with this. And as someone who’s seen myself as a woman in a bunch of different media, I really dislike the term, “toxic masculinity”. It’s a term used to shame a man for having a penis, but in a very specific and negative way.
It’s the term for men telling women to be more “presentable” in public. It’s a way to discourage people from meeting new people in public because it’s easier for you to be seen as “available” in a social setting. Pussy shaming is just another way for men to shut women up.I feel it’s an anti-female thing to do, and the term is definitely anti-female. I don’t know what the other side of the same coin is with “pussy shaming”.
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I also think the word is anti-male, but I feel like I can’t think of a specific thing that I hate so much about itI’m just curious, does it include men who want women to smile and make themselves more attractive to men?Yes, it does. It’s called the “gazey” way. Women aren’t allowed to smile, but men are. And while they can look and smile, it’s not okay to make yourself smile. Including those who don’t want to, but don’t really want to make themselves look and smile, is pretty anti-feminist.
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I think this is very accurate. This is what I thought when I read the article about men being sexually manipulative towards women. I think there’s some real harm in this. But what is the harm? There’s no harm to getting them to be very upset about it. I’m trying to keep it civil.
Yes, but I’m also a male in the comments. So I don’t understand your question exactlyI’m not sure about “pussy shaming” but I’m glad that you said what you said.Yeah, but what I mean is that sexualizing women is really bad. It doesn’t feel like a real social norm to sexualize women if you’re not interacting with them.But what if it’s not even a real social norm? That’s like saying that men who are abusive towards women are ok, but men who abuse women is okay.I mean, the point of this post is that people need to stop sexualizing women. But that’s saying something different.Yeah, but what if it’s just not okay to sexualize women? I’m not saying it’s a bad thing to do, just not doing it as a regular thing.I mean, you can’t just start doing it and expect everyone to stop.I get that. But you are being hypocritical.
I think this is very accurate. This is what I thought when I read the article about men being sexually manipulative towards women. I think there’s some real harm in this. But what is the harm? There’s no harm to getting them to be very upset about it. I’m trying to keep it civil. There’s no harm to women, I mean, it is just that they don’t feel that way towards men. I mean, how do you get them to feel like that? Well, it seems like most men have this opinion. So I’m wondering if this is something that men would say to women. I mean, most men seem to think that women are just a bunch of bitches.But how do you get them to say that? Well, it seems like most women would just say it, “Oh, he’s just jealous that I’m getting closer to my husband” or something along those lines. So I’m wondering if there is something that men might do to women that women would not necessarily say to men? Or if they’re just jealous of me getting closer to them.
Also, I’m curious to see if women will just do the same thing when talking to men. I mean, if a man asks me “Would you rather date a girl who is hot but is also very attractive but doesn’t share your personality?” I don’t know the answer to that. And I mean, would they rather date a guy who is hot but also has this personality but also has a small personality or a guy who is cute but doesn’t share your personality? And would they choose the smaller guy or the bigger guy? Or would they rather date someone who is hot but also really good looking but also doesn’t share your personality? Or would they choose the cute guy or the good looking guy? Or would they choose the cute guy but less attractive?
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There's a very good reason for this, if you're attracted to someone with a personality that is different from your own, I would recommend that you choose someone who isn't very attractive (for example, someone who is really interesting but has personality that is much more in tune with your own) and you find someone who is very attractive, and that person will make your life easier for you. But I think this is a general rule to avoid people who are unattractive (for example, someone who has personality that is very much more in tune with your own) - I find it much easier to have a relationship with someone who is very attractive, and I also find it much easier to be sexually attracted to someone who is very attractive. I just want to be a good person and be happy with myself and my personality, I guess :)<|eols|
I believe this, but it really depends on the situation. For me, the more I’m able to “empower” my partner, the less I have to say. I think that. It’s not really about me. It’s more about my partner. If they don’t see me as a powerful person, they won’t really feel able to use their power. It might feel a bit like I’m using them. But it’s just my job to help them. I also want my partner to be more confident in me, more present and more present in the moment. I want them to be able to be confident in themselves. I don’t think it’s a bad thing if they don’t get it. It just depends on the situation. I don’t want to be too forceful with them. I think it can be a way to be more assertive. I really don’t want them to get defensive, and I don’t want them to get defensive. I think that they are better off not saying anything at all.You’re absolutely right. I think it’s important to get the conversation off your chest and to let it happen naturally, rather than trying to force anything. If I were you I would probably say something instead.
I think this is very accurate. This is what I thought when I read the article about men being sexually manipulative towards women. I think there’s some real harm in this. But what is the harm? There’s no harm to women, I mean, it is just that they don’t feel that way towards men. And if they do, well then they don’t feel like they belong. They don’t feel that they belong. I mean, they don’t
I think a lot of it is rooted in the fact that women have a way of getting to the point where it’s almost not possible to not have sex. So, the whole thing can be very harmful. I think we should make sure that sex is never the goal or a place where men can just have it. If we start telling people what they should do to prevent these things, we will only make things worse.That’s really the gist of it. Sex is a social construct, and it’s the social construct that we have a responsibility to create. If we don’t make sex inclusive, it’ll be too hard for people to be able to get comfortable with not having sex when they’re tired and want to.I’m sorry, but I think sex is not a social construct, just a social construct. You can create it in your head, it can be a social construct. And the goal should be to make it as inclusive as possible. That’s what the term “sex is a social construct” means. It’s not a natural occurrence. It’s a social construct we need to try to create. And I would just try to think of it as a construct. I just don’t think we should put the onus on people to make sure that sex is inclusive. That is really what the term “sex is a social construct” means.What’s your point?
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I was just curious as to your thoughts on the meaning of “pussy shaming” in relation to sexuality. View Poll
Also I wanted to see your perspective on the matter.
People don’t use “pussy shaming” as a pejorative anymore. People are using it to mean “Pussy shaming is bad” instead, or “Pussy shaming is bad, but not the most wholesome of sex toys.There’s also a reason people call them “pussy shaming” nowadays. People are using it to mean “people should not touch a plexi-gel-based penis” instead, or “somebody piss on their faceI think people call them “pussy shaming” because it’s an easy way to say “fuck you” when someone has a really good time.Yeah, “pussy shaming” is a shitpost.I agree
Thanks for the likes! I posted this a lot in the last month. I hope this helps clear up some common questions.
I was just curious as to your thoughts on the meaning of “pussy shaming” in relation to sexuality. View Poll
Oh, I never thought of it that way. I think people use it for the general “I am a piece of shit” kind of stuff. But I think it’s meant as a sort of “you have so much to lose in the world!” kind of thing. I think it’s mostly used in an almost spiritual sense.
I was just wondering how you felt about it. Is it something you are passionate about or do you not care? Also, how do you feel about it? I hope this helps clarify some common questions people may have.
And the term “dick-touching” is just a term that people use when people have really bad gums.I mean, if you want to, you can get a penis in the mail, but it’s just a stupid term to say.
I didn’t really mean to make a meme out of this. But anyways, I wanted to know what people thought about it. View Poll
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I have to ask. Would you rather say “fuck you’ or “fuck your p***y”? View Poll
It’s not about the word, it’s about the idea. You could say that it’s the way you treat your dick or a piece of your vulva.Exactly, it sounds very misogynistic and dismissive to men and I can’t really agree with it. It’s just so stupid and doesn’t accurately describe the way I see myself. If I had an ounce of confidence about anything it would be that I’d never treat a woman badly because I’d never do it to a man. I think I’m just more likely to treat a man badly if he’s nice to me. And yes, I know that sometimes it is a man’s fault for not treating me right, but I’m just more likely to do so than most.
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And the term I found most offensive is “pussypass”. It’s a term I found extremely demeaning. It describes women and girls. It also implies that if a girl doesn’t fit into a certain box she has no worth.Right, and I'm sorry you had to read that post lol. I love the sub, and I hope I'm not the only one who finds it so demeaning. I just hope we can find a more positive one here. Also, I think that “pussypass” is a term that is offensive to people who are in a relationship.
For context, I'm a man. I'm the author of “Pussy Suck: The Male Gaze.” This book is about the male gaze. It's about how men feel when we're aroused or aroused by something, whether it be a movie, a woman, a piece of art, etc. I was always wondering what is the meaning of this word “pussy” as an objectification/disorder, though it also refers to the “gaze.” Is it derogatory? Or is it a term of address?Not to mention, the word “pussy” is the word “pussy” (and it's been used historically to refer to any vagina without a male penis, not just vaginas. It's a term used to refer to the female body, as well as referring to female genitalia.)
I’ll try to think of a way to put this’s “in’ context!
Also, “pussy shaming” is something that I’m just wondering about!!!
If it’s not a Reddit moment, then it’s just a dumb joke.This is a reddit moment right?