No matter what you use, it seems they always fail and no one is interested.

Even a free app like duolicious has this problem.

  • BartyDeCanter@lemmy.sdf.org
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    Well, sorta. As someone else pointed out the economic incentives for most dating app owners are diametrically opposed to the needs of the users. There is also a huge consolation in the market with the majority of the apps by user count being owned by a single company which leads to enshittification.

    There are a few exceptions but they very much aren’t for everyone.

    OKCupid from 20 years ago was great before it sold out. But it’s only accessible to time travelers.

    Next are the more event based or hookup apps which tend to cater to kinksters, swingers, poly, and queer folk. I’m thinking of things like FetLife, Grinder and Plura. They work well for their audience since those communities tend to have events that people will keep coming back for even if they have successfully found someone on the app. In fact success finding someone might make them more likely to keep on the app and bring in their friends.

    But for monogamous straight people? Dating apps are a hellscape.