• Rainbow Bumblebee@feddit.de
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    1 year ago

    I feel this to my soul. And for the longest time I didn’t know it was ADHD. I just thought I was a lazy piece of shit.

  • dumptruckdan@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    Yup. Also applies if you’re diagnosed but having to rawdog all of it because your body can’t tolerate either ADHD meds or antidepressants. So you’re stuck trying to kludge together solutions with behavioral, cognitive and lifestyle changes and it’s like trying to build a sand castle with powdered sugar. Maybe you can make something stick together a bit, but one big sneeze and it’s all gone.

  • Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 year ago

    And building yourself back out of depression once treatment starts isn’t an overnight thing

    I was diagnosed like 3 months ago at 29

    It’s a night and day difference but it’s still a bit rough at times

    But I’m working on it and now that I’m able to stay focused on a task it’s easier than before, but it’s not easy

  • Elektrobank@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    And after 40+ years of suffering in get diagnosed, and medicated, and now all the meds are backordered… Back to my old ways

  • WndyLady@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    Increasingly in my life, I’ve found this to manifest as an intolerance of frustration. Need a tool that’s not at hand? That project’s never getting finished. Anyone have methods for coping with this?

  • Molecular0079@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I feel like I have untreated ADHD, but at this point I have no idea how exactly to get the proper help and sometimes I am too afraid to ask. What should I be looking out for in finding treatment?

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      1 year ago

      What’s called ‘untreated adhd’ in this image is in fact just normal personality traits that most people experience.

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        1 year ago

        Everybody pees, but if you’re doing it 80 times a day there’s probably an issue.

      • cats@lemm.ee
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        1 year ago

        Just like everyone gets sad but not everyone gets depressed, everyone experiences ADHD symptoms but only some have ADHD. It is about the frequency and severity of the impact on your life.

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    1 year ago

    People don’t understand that beating yourself up is still a shot of dopamine. Drama, including drama limited to your head… It’s still dopamine.

    Depression, sure, but the constant negatives that come with adhd is still a steady dopamine IV drip.

    • SirNuke@kbin.social
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      1 year ago

      You are voluntarily here and finding common ground with an ADHD meme. If you’ve felt like there’s something different about you and have been waiting for a Sign, this is it.

      Just keep an open mind, since a lot of different things can cause ADHD like symptoms. “I actually don’t have ADHD” is also important information, and a good psychiatrist or therapist can help guide you to wherever the truth lies.

    • BackStabbath@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      I’ve had a feeling that I might have it for a while but idk what to do. It seems like there’s probably not a sureshot way to know I have it? And if I don’t, it’ll always feel like an excuse to other people.

  • Suddenmoose@kbin.social
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    I havent been diagnosed but im sure i have it. Getting a diagnosis is a pain in the ass in austin. That being said i think i have gotten better at recognizing when i am in an abnormal state like depression. My mind starts getting cloudy or darker and feel it get heavier. If that makes any sense

    • bric@lemm.ee
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      I went to my primary care doctor about it, and I matched every attention/stress criteria on their sheet, but I dodn’t have anger issues so they said I didn’t have ADHD. Yet every time I see a post like this it matches exactly. It’s weird to say I think I have ADHD when a doctor has told me I don’t have it… But I still think I have it, it just matches too well.

      So I guess welcome to the undiagnosed gang, good to have you

    • ickplant@lemmy.worldOP
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      1 year ago

      If you think you might be depressed, it’s best to look for a psychiatrist who can make an assessment. I’m providing this info for educational purposes only, please don’t diagnose yourself.

      To be officially diagnosed with depression, you’d need to have at least five of the following symptoms for at least 2 weeks, and at least one of the boldened symptoms needs to be present:

      • Depressed mood
      • Loss of interest/pleasure in almost all activities
      • Significant weight loss or gain without dieting or significant decreases or increases in appetite.
      • Sleeping too much or too little nearly every day.
      • Moving too much or too little nearly every day in a way that’s noticeable to other people.
      • Feeling fatigued and devoid of energy nearly every day.
      • Feeling worthless or inappropriately guilty nearly every day.
      • Having brain fog and indecisiveness.
      • And, finally, having thoughts of suicide.

      More goes into the diagnosis (like for example ruling out medical conditions and substance use), so once again, please don’t just diagnose yourself based on this list.