My partner was saying how it seems like most men cant look at a woman without also thinking about sex with them.
As a man I feel that way sometimes, sex is always on my mind. But like, if I look at a woman I’m not attracted to I just … don’t want to have sex with them. They’re still a person who I can have platonic interactions with. Same for the vast majority of women who I would like to have sex with who don’t feel the same way about me. I think this is the part the misogynist/transphobic dudes struggle with, they can’t get over themselves. For me the sexual thoughts are more often annoying than anything else and they’re only one part of the “whole” that I think about women.
As a man I feel that way sometimes, sex is always on my mind. But like, if I look at a woman I’m not attracted to I just … don’t want to have sex with them. They’re still a person who I can have platonic interactions with. Same for the vast majority of women who I would like to have sex with who don’t feel the same way about me. I think this is the part the misogynist/transphobic dudes struggle with, they can’t get over themselves. For me the sexual thoughts are more often annoying than anything else and they’re only one part of the “whole” that I think about women.